domain expired

Hi,
I have a huge problem. I directed a domain name I owned to my blog spot address.
The domain I owned was www.dbestpinoyradio.com
My blogger address I blog from is www.dbestpinoyradio.blogspot.com.
The problem is the www.dbestpinoyradio.com has expired. It was my stupid fault for not renewing!
I have now purchased a new domain through blogger www.dbestpinoyradio.com and have my www.dbestpinoyradio.blogspot.com pointing to it.
What I need to know is when will google index it?
Also all my blog posts made via blogger come up with www.dbestpinoyradio.com in google search results.
What would you advise me doing? All the links are included on the www.dbestpinoyradio.com domain which has now been parked!
Any advice would be greatly received.
I need www.dbestpinoyradio.com domain as the top search result.
Thanks

GOODBYES..............................

Why can't we get all the people together in the world that we really like and then just stay together?  I guess that wouldn't work.  Someone would leave.  Someone always leaves. 

Sometimes you have to let go of the one you love to find out if there is really something there.

Never part without loving words to think of during your absence. It may be that you will not meet again in this life.

People will forget what you said, they will forget what you did, but they will never forget how much you made them feel.

But fate ordains that dearest friends must part.

Goodbye, goodbye, I hate the word. Solitude has long since turned brown and withered, sitting bitter in my mouth and heavy in my veins.

A farewell is necessary before we can meet again and meeting again, after moments or a lifetime, is certain for those who are friends.

Sweet is the memory of distant friends! Like the mellow rays of the departing sun, it falls tenderly, yet sadly, on the heart.

We laughed until we had to cry; we loved right down to our last goodbye; we were the best.

Life wouldn’t be the same without you and all the memories you have given to us.

I can tell by your tears that you will remember it all.

It’s all said and done, it’s real, and it’s been fun.

It’s something unpredictable, but in the end is right, I hope you had the time of your life

Being strong sometimes means being able to let go.

Promise me you'll never forget me because if I thought you would I'd never leave.

Don't cry because it's over.  Smile because it happened

You and I will meet again When we're least expecting it One day in some far off place I will recognize your face I won't say goodbye my friend For you and I will meet again

 D'BEST PINOY RADIO....Proud to be FILIPINO

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I spent most of my time in my late teens and early twenties on finding love, or so I thought at the time. In actuality I was seeking self-acceptance, approval and identity. I was deeply insecure and had a great fear of being alone. I jumped from relationship to relationship, all the while searching for myself. But the act of seeking self-worth through my external relationships took me further from that which I longed.
I’ve always been an ambitious person. But whenever I found myself in a relationship, I would drop everything that was important to me and would focus exclusively on the person I was dating. You see, I didn’t respect myself, and I thought that finding someone to love me was more important than anything else. During these time, I was distancing myself further from my passions, my purpose and my true self.
Looking back, I had entered many of these relationships out of infatuation or loneliness. It was the fear of abandonment or the guilt of obligation that kept me in these relationships. I often got into and remained involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. I would convince myself that no one else out there would love me, and so I settled. Despite my surface appearance, I was deeply unhappy.
My freedom day came roughly two years ago. In a state of deep depression over unsatisfied relationships and through a growing despise of my gross dependencies on them, a miraculous understanding came to me and I experienced a moment of clarity. At that moment I made a vow to end the pain.
I started to devour as much material and wisdom as I could find on the topic of relationships, and studied  I have come a long way from being that insecure little girl, and have learned much about myself in the process. Most importantly I discovered that once I started to truly love myself, and to focus on my own inner peace and wellness, true love came looking for me.

How do I found true love?

How do I find true love? If the answer for this particular question is hard to look for, it becomes even harder when the person looking for it have been heartbroken.
In finding a soulmate, heartbreaks come normally. It may even be frequent as no commitment has been made yet.
There is nothing more painful than heartbreaks. It brings the kind of emotional pain that can go so deep you can compare it to the ones you get from physical blows. All we wanted to happen when we go through heartbreaks is to wish for that pain to disappear.
How do I find true love if I’m all shattered and hopeless? Sadly, there’s no such thing as band aid for your shattered heart. It may sound a bit cliché but time seems to be the only cure for emotional pains caused by heartbreaks. Everything will get better through time, even the deep painful hurt from getting your heart broken.
However, to be able to achieve this, you may need to temporarily stop your quest in finding a soulmate. You may need to take a rest from dating. For whatever it’s worth, here are some ways you can actually alleviate the pain:
1. Cry
At the beginning, you will feel insignificant or useless and whether or not you’re an emotional person, you will feel the need to cry. Questions like how do I find true love may even start to cross your mind many times than expected and may make you feel even more depressed. In times like this, all you can do is let yourself do some crying. A life-changing event happened. It’s not a simple thing you can just brush off from your life in an instant. Give yourself time to grieve but just enough that you don’t linger in your past as it will only cause pain.
2. Talk to people close to you
Have an outlet. By sharing the pain you feel with someone you are comfortable with will enable you to feel a little better. Ask them the questions you have been asking yourself like how can I find love when I feel like there’s no hope? Take comfort from having someone around for you. Spend your time catching up with your friends.
3. Welcome distractions
Maybe you had the kind of relationship that took you away from every opportunity to spend some time with yourself or your loved ones. So let them into your life again. Let their support shower over you. This is actually another way that answers your question of how can I find love. Find love through those people important to you.

You may also opt to spend some time in the gym or arrange your stuff in the closet. You may simply opt to go out your house and take a stroll. Allowing distractions into your life is one big step you can take to move on.
4. Let go of your bitter past
Move on towards your better future. After a while of giving yourself the chance to experience grief, it’s time to start moving on with your life. Start anew and now that you have gotten over the anger and sadness, let hope help you get on. Make time for the self you that you forgot existed when you were in a relationship.
How can I find love? Well try to heal your broken heart first. It is sometimes hard to follow steps like these to move on but keep in mind that they are essential for you to put the broken pieces back together. By this, you will not only be able to become complete but you may become whoever and whatever you wanted to be. This is an opportunity for you to start anew so be sure to grab it.

Online Love affair..........

Oh, what can an incurable romantic like me do? I always have the penchant to watch romantic movies and read romantic stories. Usually, romance movies have a happy or tragic ending. But why is it that most of us are masochistic? It seems that no matter how difficult things are and somehow we can predict how the story will end, we still have the desire to start a relationship no matter how impossible it may be.

Like here on the net. Some part of me would like to believe that an online love affair might work. Many people find solace here. It’s easier to find intimacy here or so we think? Promises and wishes are there to make our days sunny and bright, even though we know that it might not come true at all.

 But maybe, I still want to believe in this romantic fantasy world where in correspondences are enough. Like in ancient times, writing a love letter and mailing it were enough for the lovers, until such time that they can really be together, and get married.

I think most people would like to spend time with a person here on the net without the burden of  a real life relationship. We have to admit that people can express themselves freely and easily here on the net. It is also very  convenient because all you need is some privacy and an internet connection.

But come to think of it, we’ll never get to know the person unless we spend real moments with that person in flesh and blood.  We think it might be love, but as time passes by, we suddenly realize how shallow  those words were. Is it really true? How can they prove it? In the end, it’s real action that counts.

Let us ask ourselves these questions:  Is this person for real?  Are we able to cope up with our promises and make it a reality,especially when distance is a big factor? Are we willing to go an extra mile to meet the person and take the risk? Will the relationship still work if we make a real life transition?

No matter how bizarre the set-up may be, there is something positive about online love relationships. Everybody needs company and someone to talk to. If they haven’t got the chance to meet someone special in real life, this might be an alternative. This can also bring smiles to their faces and fill the emptiness they feel in their lives.

I know that this can not substitute for a real life relationship but  come to think of it, this can also make a person happy  and loved. These people  realize that they  are  able to connect  with someone.  Someone cares and someone is willing to listen to their problems and stories. Their lives are not as bad as they think it is.

In any relationship,  there is a risk that an online love affair might not work out and the two of you might say goodbye in the end.  But if we open our minds into the possibility that this will soon end, then I guess there would be no heartbreak, and we can easily move on with our lives. Just as long as we keep in mind that, it was good while it lasted.  I know it’s easier said and done, but we can manage it if we wanted to.